Saturday, January 30, 2010

Achieve Happiness In Your Life

Happiness, perhaps considered the most quintessential goal of our entire existence, thoroughly wrapped in subjectivity. Is the never-ending aspiration of happiness attainable?
There is a saying that happiness is There is no need to search for happiness, you can just be happy now. Energy is the only reality of this world, and we are all as One, this dynamic, malleable and pure light energy that physicists equate with matter and poets define as love. The only laws are paradox, humour and change. There is no problem, there never was and never will be. A place for everything and everything in its place. Release your struggle, let go of your mind, throw away your concerns and relax into the world like a comfy armchair. No need to worry or resist life, as Buddha said….just do your best. Trust your instincts. Feel the ground beneath your feet, the sky soaring above. Take a moment. Take a few. Make your actions conscious, spontaneous, intentional and complete. Wherever you go, go with all of your heart. Do not attach yourself to expectations, outcomes or false ego and realities. Open your eyes and heart and see that you are far more that you could ever imagine. You are the world, you are the universe, you are yourself and everything else in this world. You have been and will be eternally. Awake! Ignite your spirit and regain your humour for you have always been free!

You're my reason to get up
Each morning
And a dream each night

How far should a person go in the pursuit of this idea called "happiness"? Is there an end to this pursuit? Is it all in a vain attempt to achieve something that is all in all unattainable? Or maybe we all have it wrong. Each personal idea of happiness is so different from the next. Who has it right? Is it the millionaire who has everything they can dream of getting materially. Or is the pauper that is married to the love of there life with the family they have craved since childhood. Can it be both or is it neither.

A smile shared during everyday life
Because you are there with me

But according to Stairs Zimmermann happiness is:
If I were to do a quick poll of random people, posing the question “Do you consider yourself happy?” The answers might be surprising, most people in my opinion would spout they are indeed happy. I don’t want to misconstrue or negate the fact that if I were to pose this question to people living in war torn countries or within tragic circumstances that their answer would also be “yes” – but could they still achieve happiness. I believe so.
For the most part, if not the whole part, I believe it is safe to say happiness is a state of be-ing, echoed through the ages, I believe there is some fundamental truth here.
So what constitutes happiness? I asked my five-year-old daughter what her idea of happiness was. “When you have a smile on your face and feel glad,” she uttered without pause or reflection. Intrigued I pressed further “so what makes you happy?” “Crafts!” she beamed. “What about crafts makes you happy?” Ah ha, here I saw her reflect, briefly. “When I work hard to make the craft, it kinda doesn’t feel like work, its kinda like a reward after, cause I get to play with the crafts. There it was, I saw it, I was able to piece it together – happiness could be achieved in doing something meaningful, or reaping the reward of pursuing something meaningful. The meaningful or purposeful aspect is unique to each person – we don’t all do crafts for enjoyment. However, it’s in discovering this meaning or purpose that alters our state of be-ing, and induces happiness.
In revealing the ultimate secret to happiness, an accumulation of factors must be realized. Seeking those things that intrinsically give purpose and meaning to your life are paramount. Gratitude for the smallest of things (even those you deem insignificant or take for granted) is vitally important. Gratitude and appreciation are synonymous, and should be conceived effortlessly. Take a look around you right now, find in your immediate environment five things you are thankful for. I bet this was effortless!
Our reference point for happiness must be internal (our ability to perceive), although our stimulus is often “external.” I practice (I say practice because I’m also evolving) each day being cognizant of the events or circumstances I perceive as “challenging”, this highlights an opportunity to shift my perception to one of appreciation. Take a moment to embrace your surroundings, for all of its apparent misgivings, perhaps there is something uniquely obscured deserving your attention and appreciation. The secret to happiness is not elusive, it is not what we have, it is not what we do – it is the perception we hold of ourselves, our environment and the events we allow to alter our more beautiful un-refined self.

These are but some of the feeling i have for you
And for that I'am happy you are in my life.


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Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Over Buyer And Under Buyer : For Women

We often question the people who have Impulsive buying habits. But actually, people who rarely shop could harm himself, even other people. I was so lazy save, or save something of goods (including medicines), she often contrived fuss when suddenly need it.

Two types of shoppers who are usually called bertolakbelakang buyer over and under buyer. In fact each has advantages, but often also result in chaos. Try to do the test, the type where you are:

You are an over-buyer, if:
  1. You buy baby clothe funny, but the little trigger-growing large before you remember these clothes store in the closet.
  2. You buy a stock of goods such as shampoo or cough medicine in large quantities.
  3. You frequently buy gadgets or appliances you have not, by thinking, "This would be useful later." "
  4. You make a list of stores that you want to visit before you travel in a city or country.
  5. Periodically you have to throw objects such as: milk, medicines, and even a can of fruit cocktail, because it has expired.
  6. You buy knick-knacks, and said to myself, "This is certainly going to be a sweet gift! ', But did not know to whom your gift will be given.
  7. You think that, "Buying these things shows that I am responsible, organized, and attentive."

You are an under-buyer if:
  1. You are often hesitant to buy items such as blazers good quality 50% discount, or a little black dress you often need to attend the semi-formal, and often find items already sold out when you arrive at the store.
  2. You're Suspicious of specialized objects and resist buying things dedicated to very specific uses: suit bags, special plastic plates and Cutlery for children, hand cream, rain boots, hair conditioner.
  3. You often need other goods in lieu of stock have been exhausted, such as using body soap for facial cleansing soap substitute, or buy shampoo in sachets in retail because they do not have time to buy shampoo.
  4. You often find things that you need, but canceled the purchase because they think, "Next time it is", or, "I think I need-need enggak very deh."
  5. If you must buy something, you buy as little as possible. For example, to buy gasoline only Rp 50,000. In fact, you'll have to bring a car each day.
  6. You are proud of yourself for a principled, "I do not spend too much, and this shows that I am frugal and not someone who consumptive."

An under-buyers often feel stress because they do not have the goods actually needed. If the periods come early, you often have to go to minimarket 24 hours at midnight to buy sanitary napkins. When in office, you are also frequently requested drugs to friends. However, you still do not want to change this habit.

Conversely, people who over-buyers feel stressed because of stuck with goods that would not necessarily be used. You also often run out of places to put these items. They even feel depressed to see the number of knick-knacks that previously they believe will be used, and how many are eventually forced trashed.

Advice for the under-buyer: buy what you need, without a moment's delay. Do not until you are forced to run in the early morning or middle of the night because it requires something you can get in advance.

As for over-buyers: Think again before you open the wallet. You do not need to stock the toilet paper a year is not it?

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Tips True Lose Weight

No need to feel tortured to get your ideal body. Simply by changing daily lifestyle you too can achieve your desires. Try to do daily steps below to ensure that you reach your dream weight in a healthy way.

1. Considering Body Weight Every Day
If your weight continues to increase every few days, it is a sign of danger that you should start to reduce intake of fatty foods, or increase the portion of practice.

2. Fruit consumption Twice a day
Fruit has no fat, and most of its contents are water, so that will give satiety in your stomach. While providing a place for high-calorie foods. The fruit also has lots of healthy fiber. Make sure you add this fat-burning foods in your diet everyday.

3. Body Shaping 3 time a week
Do push-ups combined, half squat, and Squat turns within 5 minutes, and give pause each time 30 seconds. This exercise will build and maintain body mass. The more muscle you have, the higher your metabolism, so will the more calories you burn in daily activities.

4. Teman Sejati
Well, that is rather difficult to obtain. The next time you are stuck to want to eat certain foods is not good for your diet, contact your friends are. Ask your friends to remind you that can remind you of a diet that you are living. Research shows, that sense of desire to consume something only lasted 5 minutes. So, when you're finished talking with your friends, a sense of passion that has faded away.

Sunday, January 10, 2010

facebook emotion Code


 

happy :-) :) :] =)

robot :|]

curly lips :3

pacman :v

upset >:O >:-O >:o >:-o

confused o.O O.o

squint -_-

kiki ^_^

heart <3

kiss :-* :*

angel O:) O:-)

devil 3:) 3:-)

Shark (^^^)

unsure :/ :-/ :\ :-\

cry :'(

grumpy >:( >:-(

sunglasses 8-| 8| B-| B|

glasses 8-) 8) B-) B)

wink ;-) ;)

gasp :-O :O :-o :o

grin :-D :D =D

tongue :-P :P :-p :p =P

sad :-( :( :[ =(

Chris Putnam :putnam:

If you frequently chat on facebook and like to use the smiley, here are the smiley codes that can be used in Facebook chat.

Friday, January 08, 2010

Research On Bad Habits Of Women During Late

One study revealed that women tend to do bad habits while working late at the office. They generally spend a long time in the office accompanied by cigarettes, coffee, and high-calorie snacks and sugar.

Team of researchers from Leeds University in England revealed, although men and women often consume unhealthy foods during overtime, but this habit is more impact on women's health.

This research was conducted by looking at eating patterns of 229 female respondents and 193 male respondents. They also noticed the symptoms of stress that may attack the respondents while working overtime.

According to Professor Cary Cooper, one of the researchers, in overtime when women tend to choose foods that contain fat and sugar and coffee and cigarettes consumed in excess. This condition worsened health because of their overtime while usually forget to exercise.

While for men, overtime work does not affect them in the exercise habits, coffee consumption and smoking.
 
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